Relativizing …
1. People and money mainly.
2. Most of my lifestyle dogmas and expectations.
3. Work, under my own pressure.
4. The existence and recognition of love.
5. Proximity with strangers even if they know me and even if they think they know me.
6. Lists of others.
7. Success and failure.
8. Power about something (anything, except unconditional love and care).
9. Me.

the MONSTRUKTOR