There are no difference between different choices if it’s plainly a choice. Now, if it’s a singular relation between a subject and an intrinsic action the reality of individuality and a protagonist takes place.
Decision, selection and curation are part of our unconscious life. If you make them a part of everything, you cannot live with a correct balance between informality and spontaneous time/space dimension and rationality.
Solving it can be done by doing both in the scalable needed portion.
My solution is always to tackle the easiest decision with critic and choosing wisely my own specific and singular path. Therefore, between the micro and the macro there’s always a normal adjustment and an infinite range of uniqueness.
Find yours. You know mine.